Awakening Sexual Transformation

Are Multiple Orgasms Better Than One? – How Some Men Lie When They Say They Are “All ...

Are Multiple Orgasms Better Than One? – How Some Men Lie When They Say They Are “All About Her Pleasure”

It’s been fun making Facebook Livestreams.  Here’s another one!

NEW VIDEO: Braless For 9 Years?! Why I Ditched Bras For Good

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Why We Must Take No Sexist Shit

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I was perusing Facebook today commenting and liking, when out-of-the-blue this uber ‘spiritual’ guy made a very sexist comment to me. Now I suppose this should be of no surprise given this world is still super patriarchal, but I was shocked and appalled nonetheless.  It’s amazing how many people continue to maintain their gender privilege […]

Q&A – Even Saying the Word “Sex” Is Weird To Me

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Hi Julia I’ve considered getting coaching to help with desire troubles.  The issue is that I’m a private person and even saying the word “sex” is weird to me.  I’ve never really talked to anyone about it and don’t know how coaching would work for me, or be right for me, if I don’t feel […]

Why I Talk About Sex and How I Want to Change Your Life for the Better

To empower yourself in your body is to empower your life

  Four years ago I paid my spiritual teacher to help me heal my numb vagina… only to have him talk my ear off for two hours about how I would be a writer, speaker and workshop leader in the field of sexuality. At the end I told him all that sounded great, but where […]

When We Sit Naked Together, Healing Is Born

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  As I sat down to write about Bodysex last week, I noticed the last lily bud from centerpiece flowers beginning to open. I feel like that lily bud. Both attending and facilitating Bodysex has opened me so much and this workshop was no exception. It infused me with the strength to unfurl my wings […]

The Thing You’re Most Afraid To Say Will Set You Free


  The world is just waiting for the power in you to come out. Tonight I did a practice Bodysex round with my assistant, Vega DeLeon, and I was reminded of so many important truths. One was that in our attempts to grow or become ‘better’, we often want to gloss over or sugar coat […]

Listen To Your Body And Gain More Pleasure and Healing

And I said to my body

  What normally would have felt amazing, taking me deeper into sensation, kind of hurt this time. As he moved his fingers inside me, I felt a tension growing in my pelvis. Something was welling up inside. I started to wonder what, and then suddenly, found myself overwhelmed by it’s energy. “Stop… come ‘ere please” […]

Special Bodysex Goddess Empowerment Photo Shoot


SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Would you love to have sexy, beautiful and empowering photos of yourself? Bodysex is around the corner and I’m adding another amazing offering to it! The day after the Bodysex weekend concludes, all women attending will get to participate in their own Goddess Women Empowerment Photo Session. Last time, I teamed up with […]

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