My heart is budding with gratitude for the large response my facebook posts have gotten lately. In the last year I’ve shared much less personal updates than I used to. So much has happened that every time I think to share, I am overwhelmed and I don’t know where to start. I think I […]
Dear Julia, I have new questions about my 12 year old son and masturbation. We’ve talked before about my desire to provide a masturbation positive, sex positive environment for him and my idea to provide him with useful masturbation tools like towels and lube. Now I have some questions about porn. A couple months ago, […]
It’s been fun making Facebook Livestreams. Here’s another one!
I was perusing Facebook today commenting and liking, when out-of-the-blue this uber ‘spiritual’ guy made a very sexist comment to me. Now I suppose this should be of no surprise given this world is still super patriarchal, but I was shocked and appalled nonetheless. It’s amazing how many people continue to maintain their gender privilege […]
Hi Julia I’ve considered getting coaching to help with desire troubles. The issue is that I’m a private person and even saying the word “sex” is weird to me. I’ve never really talked to anyone about it and don’t know how coaching would work for me, or be right for me, if I don’t feel […]
Four years ago I paid my spiritual teacher to help me heal my numb vagina… only to have him talk my ear off for two hours about how I would be a writer, speaker and workshop leader in the field of sexuality. At the end I told him all that sounded great, but where […]
As I sat down to write about Bodysex last week, I noticed the last lily bud from centerpiece flowers beginning to open. I feel like that lily bud. Both attending and facilitating Bodysex has opened me so much and this workshop was no exception. It infused me with the strength to unfurl my wings […]
The world is just waiting for the power in you to come out. Tonight I did a practice Bodysex round with my assistant, Vega DeLeon, and I was reminded of so many important truths. One was that in our attempts to grow or become ‘better’, we often want to gloss over or sugar coat […]