After the Bodysex workshop in August, some of the women sent me their stories in writing, sharing what Bodysex had done for them. The names are changed for their privacy, unless they gave me permission otherwise. I feel incredibly blessed and honored every time I read these. The work of Bodysex is powerful and it does the magic.
“Bodysex exponentially impacted my orgasm.” –
“Bodysex impacted me in a new way. I view my body as my temple more and more each day. Before the workshop I held so much shame around my body and flaws. Being surrounded by women who had their own self-judgments allowed me to see we all have our shit we’re working through.
Bodysex exponentially impacted my orgasm. Before the workshop, I felt ok with where I was with my orgasm… mostly with a partner though. Hearing from other women about their favorite way to orgasm and to see the vast array of toys opened my eyes to the endless possibilities.
I am able to express my sexual wants and needs in partnership better. Bodysex has impacted my ability to express my sexuality with others without feeling guilt or shame.”
“I love my body!” –
I loved that the hosts were already naked when I entered the room and that I was invited to remove my clothing immediately as well; it feels good to be able to see everyone’s body and appreciate that each one is so unique. Bodysex was challenging, revealing, fun, cozy, connecting/bonding, opening, self-reflective.
I most loved being with and sinking in with a group of women, an experience that is new for me; I was struck by how enjoyable the massage was at the end…probably a combination of feeling connected and just the quality of sensitivity that women have…
I am more informed of the complexity of my clitoris and female gentalia. I feel relieved hearing others share experiences similar to some of mine… I am more accepting of my pacing when it comes to orgasm.
I love my body! Seeing that each body and each vulva is so unique… there really is no comparing one to another… in fact it seems incredibly pointless after seeing the variety… I feel the only thing I can do is appreciate each one as it is.”
“I had no idea how far this experience would take me.” –
“Bodysex has been empowering and life changing. I realized, like many women, that I do not express fully what I want for fear of embarrassment and judgment, and that this has pushed me to do things I don’t want to do and not ask for things I want.
Bodysex showed me that all women are unique physically, from head to toe, and that variety is beautiful, and specifically that my own variety and uniqueness is beautiful and deserving of the fullest gratitude, respect and pleasure…
This experience is one of self-journey and self-enlightenment, where you learn about yourself and ultimately find the sexual intimacy you could’ve had with yourself all along.”
– Terrah Graves
“I feel more powerful and sexy” –
“After a month of not feeling much desire for sex, I’m more inspired now to make self-pleasuring a healing, exploratory, rejuvenating ritual.
I feel more powerful and sexy with my new knowledge of female anatomy, pleasure and human experiences. I highly recommend this workshop and I would love to do it again. Thank you!”