“Bodysex has been empowering and life changing.” – Terrah
Do you ever struggle to feel beautiful?
Have you ever found it hard to surrender fully into pleasure, even though you wanted to?
Are you tired of how fake this world is and long for authentic sisterhood?
The truth is, all women struggle with these things.
We’re all on a journey.
And I am too.
For years I didn’t feel comfortable with my body.
There was always something I wanted to change about it. And even when I liked my looks, I could always find a little flaw to criticize.
With partners, I found it difficult to surrender fully into pleasure. I had been trained to focus on their pleasure instead and to be seen in my own felt vulnerable.
I also never had a place to talk about these things.
I never had a place to share both the immense joys of being a sexual woman or the difficulties.
I longed for sisterhood with other women, and to talk openly about my sexuality and body, but all the women around me seemed locked in competition instead.
Then I stumbled upon a work which healed and transformed my life as a sexual woman. It helped me overcome body image issues, pleasure anxiety and step into my full power, radical self-love and authentic sisterhood.
That work is called Bodysex.
Bodysex empowered me in my pleasure and orgasm. And it helped me realize the unique beauty my body had always had, but had never been able to see.
Bodysex has transformed the lives of countless women, including my own. I loved Bodysex so much, I took the first opportunity offered to train to lead Bodysex and I’m beyond thrilled to be able to offer it to you now.
This fall I invite you to go on the Bodysex journey with me and experience your own transformation. We will explore deeply the experience of being a woman, celebrate our bodies, and forge true sisterhood!
Bodysex ~ March 18-19th, 2017
At a private, beautiful space in Boulder, CO
+ Goddess Women Empowerment Photo Shoot ~ Day after Bodysex
All women attending Bodysex will have the option of taking part in an exclusive photo shoot in nature the next day. Bask in the sunset while you have gorgeous and empowering photos taken of yourself nude and/or adorned beautifully in nature! More details below.
“Seeing that each body and each vulva is so unique… there really is no comparing one to another… in fact it seems incredibly pointless after seeing the variety… I feel the only thing I can do is appreciate each one as it is.” – Luna
What is Bodysex?
Bodysex is a transformative workshop for women only. Bodysex is done in the nude, but is non-sexual. It is a sacred circle and a unique and powerful opportunity to share with other women, what it is like to be a *real* woman, not an airbrushed, photo-shopped barbie doll.
Bodysex is for all women at all stages of growth in their sexuality, body and pleasure, and all walks of life.
Together we go on a journey to discover our own beauty, power and uniqueness – and in that journey – come together deeply as sisters. We celebrate our bodies, pleasure and orgasm, and share honestly about times we haven’t felt so sure of ourselves or our pleasure. It’s healing and empowering.
I was trained by Dr. Betty Dodson, world renowned sex educator and orgasm expert, to lead Bodysex workshops. She is an amazing leader in the field of sexuality and I am honored to be mentored by her and to be chosen to carry on this beautiful work in the world.
I have seen the transformative power of Bodysex in the lives of many women, as well as my own. I thank every woman who has already gone on the journey with me in Bodysex and am excited to welcome every new sister who will journey with me this time.
“Bodysex exponentially impacted my orgasm.” – LB
Bodysex is very unique from other workshops for women. Instead of theory, it is rooted in experiencing the empowerment journey. Instead of just *talking* about healing and transformation, you get to experience it in your own body, heart and orgasm.
The other big thing that sets Bodysex apart from other sexuality workshops, is most workshops and teachings are focused on pleasure with another person.
Bodysex, on the other hand, teaches you how to own your orgasm and embrace pleasure for yourself, not others. And from that foundation, your capacity for pleasure with others is expands exponentially.
You would greatly benefit from Bodysex if you want to:
- Overcome pleasure anxiety
- Deepen your relationship with self
- Increase sensation and pleasure
- Heighten orgasm
- Heal body image
- Experience true sisterhood, beyond competition
- Get real and stop sugar coating everything
- Step into your full power as a woman
- Feel fully accepted in your body and sexuality
- Learn a new kind of orgasm, or learn how to have your first one
What we do:
In the workshop we experience loving our bodies fully, open to more pleasure in our orgasm and lives and bond in sisterhood through experience rather than theory. And it’s all done in a safe and deeply supportive environment.
Bodysex contains four experiences that take us on the journey into loving ourselves more fully. We go through and GROW through these experiences together over the course of the weekend, and the power and safety of the sisterhood holds healing space for us in our transformations.
The keynote experiences of the Bodysex circle are:
- Circle Sharing: Sharing our authentic stories of our bodies and orgasm
- Genital-Show-And-Tell: A sacred ritual honoring the beauty and uniqueness of each or our own vulvas (vaginas).
- Erotic Recess: A free-form time where we practice self-pleasure in the circle. It begins with guided instruction and then transitions into solo-practice. Erotic Recess is relaxed and light hearted. We play music and the women help themselves to snacks and chat between orgasms. It’s all about owning your orgasm without judgment. It’s many women’s favorite part of the weekend.
- Group non-sexual touch Massage: The opportunity to be nurtured through loving touch without sexuality or the need to perform.
What I love most about it too is that the safety and honoring of the sisterhood in the workshop allows us to grow in these areas in a way that is very safe feeling, wholesome and incredibly healing.
“Two words, erotic recess. Yes! need I say more? Ok so when talking to my friends about this, whoa, I feel so empowered. 8 women laughing, orgasming, crying and loving. More gatherings such as these need to happen. Thank you.” – LB
What if I’m on my period?
That’s absolutely ok! Every workshop someone is on their period, including even possibly me. Many women use tampons or you can use a natural sea sponge tampon, diva cup OR simply an extra towel or two under you as protection. Let me know if you need anything like that and I will be more than happy to accommodate.
What if I have a yeast infection?
No big deal. You can take some oil of oregano in water before you head over to the workshop and you can bring it with you to take throughout the day, just for one idea. It’s a powerful natural anti-microbial and knocks it down fast. If you need pain and irritation relief, any drug store carries great over-the-counter medication that helps with that. If you have any questions or concerns before the workshop, reach out to me and I’ll help.
What if I can’t orgasm?
The second day we learn about and practice self-pleasure techniques during a free-form time called Erotic Recess. There are no goals or requirements other than to give pleasuring yourself a go. No need to worry if you can orgasm or not, or even if you have never had one before. My orgasm can be shy at times too. This time is all about pleasure, and with yourself – not performance. Some women who have never had orgasms have their first one in the workshop.
Where can I stay if I’m traveling?
www.airbnb.com has many options and then there is also www.couchsurfing.org .
Boulder is a short bus ride from the Denver International Airport. If you have any questions or further concerns, don’t hesitate to ask.
Where is the workshop being held?
At a private space in Boulder. I email or message everyone with the location when they’ve registered and it’s two weeks out.
Is Bodysex for women who can’t have sex or penetration is painful/uncomfortable?
Being a woman myself who once struggled with pain during sex, if I had attended Bodysex during that time, I know it would have helped me a lot. If you cannot or don’t want to use anything internally when we explore self-pleasure the second day of the workshop, that is totally ok. The only requirement is to explore externally around the vulva and clitoris.
One note for those considering attending:
Bodysex is powerful and women walk away transformed. Their lives are changed on the emotional, physical and spiritual level. Because of this, I acknowledge Bodysex is not for everyone. If you do not want your life to change or to open and share authentically in the circle, then Bodysex is not for you.
My own Bodysex transformation:
When I attended my first Bodysex workshop a few years ago, I was struck by the power of this work and the immediate effect it had on my life. I left the workshop with a profound sense of my own beauty as a sexual woman and in awe of the beauty of all other human creatures.
The weekend helped me overcome a lot of shame about being ‘too skinny’, as well as my fear that other women not be able to accept me for it. my fear women would not accept me for it. After the workshop, I went home feeling empowered to ask for what I want with my partner and had my first big clitoral orgasm with him. For years that had been something I had only been able to do on my own and both the practical learning as well as the work helping me overcome pleasure anxiety opened me up to more pleasure with my partner.
The sense of awe for my own body, it’s beauty, power and uniqueness as well as the empowerment in my orgasm, rippled into the rest of my life and helped me show up more fully how *I* wanted to. The other Bodysex workshops I took following that one continued my growth into liberated self-acceptance, love and empowerment. Bodysex was so healing for me, that I knew right away it was something I wanted to bring home to offer other women.
The funny thing is, before Bodysex I would have told you I didn’t really need to improve my body image and that I had it pretty figured out sexually. But even with all the growth I had done, being in the group unlocked a whole new layer of healing, pleasure and possibilities.
Bodysex has already changed the lives of countless women. It has a legacy of transformation leading back 40 years, and the legacy will live on through all the women who join me for Bodysex.
If feel inspired by Bodysex and an urge inside you to say “yes!”, I invite you to join me for a weekend of expansion and experience your own Bodysex transformation.
It’s going to be life-changing, beautiful … and lots of fun!
Your Investment: $397, includes a Free Mystic Wand Vibrator to take home ($60 value).
To attend Bodysex in New York with my mentor, Betty Dodson, would cost $1000+ in registration, plus travel, room and board. I’m happy to be able to make it more affordable leading official Betty Dodson Bodysex Workshops here in beautiful Colorado, for only $397, including your free Mystic Wand Vibrator.
And if you don’t have the full amount now, you can reserve your spot in the circle for only $200. After the $200 non-refundable deposit is paid, your space in the circle will be held and you can take your time to pay the rest before the workshop (full amount due March 11th, one week before).
+ Goddess Empowerment Photo Shoot – Optional offering for $75 per woman. Everyone who attends Bodysex will have the opportunity to participate in an exclusive magical and empowering photo shoot held the following day. We did this last time and it was awesome! The women had a blast and left with beautiful and tastefully sexy photos of themselves, that filled them with a sense of grace and confidence to see. It’s the perfect way to end a weekend of honoring and loving your body and sexuality. Each woman gets time and attention in front of the camera to explore her unique essence and beauty, while her sisters from the weekend cheer her on. Since we are do it as a group too, it costs way less than if you were to have a session on your own.
For full details on the optional Goddess Empowerment Photo Shoot go here.
Do you feel the call yet of your own transformation, your pleasure revolution?
Space for Bodysex is limited to 10 women.
Also, if you attend the full workshop and it is not transformative for you, I will give you your full money back. Guaranteed. I want everyone to be happy and get what they need out of the experience!
If you have any questions about Bodysex or want to talk to me, Julia Emerald, the facilitator before registering, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me at: Julia@juliaemerald.com